Job’s three friends, Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar were initially shocked by their friend’s appearance. It says in Job 2:12, “when they saw him from a distance, they did not recognize him.” After Satan took away all of Job’s possessions and killed his ten children (Job 1:13-19), Satan “struck Job with loathsome sores from the sole of his foot to the crown of his head. And he took a piece of broken pottery with which to scrape himself while he sat in the ashes” (Job 2:7-8). In response to Job’s suffering, Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar “raised their voices and wept, and they tore their robes and sprinkled dust on their heads toward heaven. And they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great” (Job 2:12-13).

After Job lamented his birth (Job 3:3-26), Job’s friends tried to explain the cause of Job’s suffering. “Much of what they said in their conversation with Job (chapters. 4-37) was true but was misapplied to Job’s situation. They did not recognize that God was testing Job and instead assumed that Job’s suffering was proportionate to some sin he had committed. It may even be that they were unknowingly used by Satan in his attempt to cause Job to sin” (note on Job 2:11-13). Zophar made false accusations against Job and tried to get him to repent. Zophar’s statement, “Know then that God exacts of you less than you deserve” (Job 11:8), seems callous, and even cruel given the extent of Job’s suffering and loss. Zophar “based his response on reasoned theology rather than on personal experience or tradition. Unfortunately, because he began with the presupposition that suffering is punishment for sin, he arrived at nearly the same conclusion as Job’s other two friends. Unlike Eliphaz and Bildad, however, Zophar believed that Job had committed some horrible secret sin for which he was being punished” (note on Job 11:1).

Job viewed his circumstances as a calamity that had been brought on him by God. Job acknowledged God’s sovereignty, stating, “Who among all these does not know that the hand of the LORD has done this? In his hand is the life of every living thing, and the breath of all mankind” (Job 12:9-10), but he didn’t realize that Satan was the one who had carried out the attack against him, and that its purpose was to test his belief in God. In his plea to God, Job confessed:

“I loathe my life;
I will give free utterance to my complaint;
    I will speak in the bitterness of my soul.
I will say to God, Do not condemn me;
    let me know why you contend against me.
Does it seem good to you to oppress,
    to despise the work of your hands
    and favor the designs of the wicked? (Job 10:1-3)

Job’s brutal honesty was the result of a spiritual battle that was going on in his mind. Job was trying to make sense of what was happening to him and he was at a loss to figure out why God would want to destroy everything that he had given him. Job told God, “Your hands fashioned and made me, and now you have destroyed me altogether” (Job 10:8).

Job’s lament is similar to others that are recorded in the book of Psalms. King David wrote in Psalm 38:

O Lord, rebuke me not in your anger,
    nor discipline me in your wrath!
For your arrows have sunk into me,
    and your hand has come down on me.

There is no soundness in my flesh
    because of your indignation;
there is no health in my bones
    because of my sin.
For my iniquities have gone over my head;
    like a heavy burden, they are too heavy for me.

My wounds stink and fester
    because of my foolishness,
I am utterly bowed down and prostrate;
    all the day I go about mourning.
For my sides are filled with burning,
    and there is no soundness in my flesh.
I am feeble and crushed;
    I groan because of the tumult of my heart. (Psalm 38:1-8)

In Psalm 39, David wrote:

“And now, O Lord, for what do I wait?
    My hope is in you.
Deliver me from all my transgressions.
    Do not make me the scorn of the fool!
I am mute; I do not open my mouth,
    for it is you who have done it.
Remove your stroke from me;
    I am spent by the hostility of your hand.
When you discipline a man
    with rebukes for sin,
you consume like a moth what is dear to him;
    surely all mankind is a mere breath! Selah

God described David as “a man after his own heart” (1 Samuel 13:14), and yet, David’s life was far from perfect. David was rebuked by Nathan the prophet for committing adultery and murder (2 Samuel 12:9), and near the end of his life, David conducted an unauthorized census (2 Samuel 24:1).

We know that the accusations Job’s friends made against him were false because God said before he allowed Satan to test Job that he was “a blameless and upright man, who fears God and turns away from evil” (Job 1:8). Job’s response to Zophar’s false accusation suggests that he may have regretted his faithfulness to God. Job told Zophar, “I am a laughingstock to my friends, I who called to God and he answered me, a just and blameless man am a laughingstock” (Job 12:4). The Hebrew word that is translated just, tsaddiyq (tsad-deekˊ) “is often applied to God, who is the ultimate standard used to define justice and righteousness (Exodus 9:27; Ezra 9:15; Psalm 7:1112]). As a substantive, the righteous is used to convey the ideal concept of those who follow God’s standards (Malachi 3:18)” (H6662). “Job did not claim to be perfect but recognized his need for God’s mercy (Job 9:15). At the same time, Job continued to insist that he had done nothing worthy of the affliction he was experiencing” (note on Job 9:1-10:22).

James used Job as an example in his discussion of patience in suffering. James said, “For examples of patience in suffering, dear brothers and sisters, look at the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. We give great honor to those who endure under suffering. For instance, you know about Job, a man of great endurance. You can see how the Lord was kind to him at the end, for the Lord is full of tenderness and mercy.” (James 5:10-11, NLT). James described Job as “a man of great endurance.” The Greek word that is translated endurance, hupomone (hoop-om-on-ayˊ) means “A bearing up under, Patience, endurance as to things or circumstances. Particularly, with the genitive of thing borne, as evils (2 Corinthians 1:6). Generally, meaning endurance, patience perseverance or constancy under suffering in faith and duty (Luke 8:15; 21:19; Romans 2:7; 8:25; 2 Corinthians 1:6; 6:4; 12:12; Colossians 1:11; 1 Thessalonians 1:3; 2 Thessalonians 1:4; 3:5; Hebrews 10:36; 12:1; James 1:3, 4; 5:11; 2 Peter 1:6; Revelation 1:9; 2:2, 3, 19; 3:10; 13:10; 14:12). Specifically patience as a quality of mind, the bearing of evils and suffering with a tranquil mind (Romans 5:3, 4; 15:4, 5; 1 Timothy 6:11; 2 Timothy 3:10; Titus 2:2)” (G5281).

James said in his letter that believers should count it all joy when they meet trials of various kinds, because the testing of our faith produces steadfastness (hupomone) (James 1:3). James went on to say, “And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing” (James 1:4). James associated being perfect and complete with hupomone, the quality that Job possessed. Developing patience as a quality of mind was discussed by Paul in his letter to the Romans. Paul said:

Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God’s glory.

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love. (Romans 5:1-5, NLT)

Paul said that we are made right in God’s sight by faith and our faith brings us into a place of undeserved privilege. Paul identified endurance as something that develops strength of character and leads to a confident hope of salvation. Just as with Job, when we run into problems and trials, it’s not because we have done something wrong. If we have placed our faith in Jesus Christ, all of our sins have been forgiven. We have problems and trials because God wants us to grow stronger in our faith and to become mature (perfect and complete) as believers (James 1:4).