Complacency is a serious sin not only because God hates it, but because it does so much damage to our spiritual health. “The word ‘complacency’ (Isaiah 32:11, NLT) refers to where we place our trust. Complacent people seek peace and security by trusting external things—possessions, titles, wealth, appearance, and so on—yet these are fleeting…Complacent people convince themselves they are immune from life’s challenges. Blinded by comfort, they live inattentive lives, oblivious to inevitable challenges and indifferent toward sin (Isaiah 32:10; Zephaniah 1:12)” (The Danger of Complacency and Smugness, The Spiritual Growth Bible, p. 766).
The complacency of the Israelites caused God to send them into captivity. It wasn’t that the Israelites didn’t know they had a problem, they did, but they refused to do anything about it. This was how my life was before I got divorced. My relationship with my ex-husband deteriorated slowly over the course of several years. By the time I realized we were in serious trouble, it was too late to change the course of our marriage or at least it seemed like it to me at the time.
Complacency began to take root in my life when my ex-husband and I no longer had to worry about whether or not we were going to have enough money to pay our bills each month. He was near the end of his career in the military, and I had a full-time job getting paid about the same amount of salary as he was. Our lives became very disconnected; we were busy and didn’t know what was going on in each other’s lives anymore. What I suspected was that he was cheating on me, but I could never prove anything because the lies kept getting more and more convincing and my sense of reality less and less stable.
The prophet Amos painted a very grim, but realistic picture of Israel’s sin of complacency when he told them:
You push away every thought of coming disaster,
but your actions only bring the day of judgment closer.
How terrible for you who sprawl on ivory beds
and lounge on your couches,
eating the meat of tender lambs from the flock
and of choice calves fattened in the stall.
You sing trivial songs to the sound of the harp
and fancy yourselves to be great musicians like David.
You drink wine by the bowlful
and perfume yourselves with fragrant lotions.
You care nothing about the ruin of your nation.
Therefore, you will be the first to be led away as captives.
Suddenly, all your parties will end. (Amos 6:3-7)
“The sin of complacency makes us spiritually dull and socially indifferent. We must replace complacency with faithful acts of righteousness” (The Sin of Complacency, The Spiritual Growth Bible, p. 1001).
The reason God doesn’t allow us to remain complacent is because our eternal well being is at stake. When Jeremiah complained to the Lord about the wicked prospering and those who are treacherous thriving, God asked him, “If you have raced with men on foot and they have wearied you, how will you compete with horses? And if in a safe land you are so trusting, what will you do in the thicket of the Jordan?” (Jeremiah 12:5). Spiritual success does not come to the faint of heart. The Apostle Paul boasted that he had endured countless beatings, that he had been stoned, shipwrecked three times, had been in toil and hardship through many a sleepless night, and experienced daily pressure because of his anxiety for all the churches that he had planted (2 Corinthians 11:23-28).
When I finally accepted the fact that my marriage was a disaster and divorce was a real possibility for me, I was stunned and didn’t know how I was ever going to recover. Thankfully, the Lord provided a way for me to survive the storm, and I eventually came to believe that all was not lost. I started over with no job, no home, and $20,000 in debt. Three very difficult years later, I was rehired by my previous employer with a promotion and more than 50% increase in salary. Although I have fully recovered and in some ways my life is even better than it was before, I will never forget the important lesson I learned from being sent into my own personal exile.
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. (Galatians 6:7-9)